Moanings, museings and more from the mind of a sometimes miserable old git!!!!
Points have been made and maybe they are valid ones, so this is my last blog entry.
I want to say goodbye and thank you to all of my friends on here and I hope that the world and life treat you all well.
See y'all
Bye. x
What! what the fuck have I missed?
YOU CAN'T FUCK OFF - IT'S YOUR DAMN FAULT I STARTED ONE OF THESE HERE THINGS IN THE FIRST PLACE!
what, basically big fella, are you fucking going on about?
PM me ya bastid!
 | Znethru pro http://www.febland.net/ 17/03/07 @ 18:25 |
Stay, stay, stay, stay, stay! OK, go! Does that mean you won't take offence if I Phyre you?
So we lose another good one eh?
Funny but I can think of so many more that I would rather lose.
Whatever choices you make, be safe and know that the door is not as firmly closed as you might think it is.
Not valid points at all, especially if not given by a person that knows you.
The most valid point that I can think of is this, writing it down, be it here, or elsewhere, is cathartic. It helps you to look at you.
I read your last post, I also read what some people said, these people dont know you any more than I do. But the two above do, and even they dont want you to go.
It is your decision, but I will be very sorry to see you go, you know where we are. xx
all valid points and all made by someone who does know him
They are only valid points if given from a neutral viewpoint, I saw yours more as an attacking view point.
How can you say therapy wont help? When a person is trying to find what is wrong within themselves, therapy is one of the better ways to do it.
But I forget your answer is to let it go and get over it, which is what a therapist endeavours to help them do, its not that simple for some people.
fair point but how do you help someone if all you ever do is agree with them and never challenge anything?
some things have to be let go especially if you cannot talk to the person who you have the issue with.
it is inappropriate to put it all out there for your children to read unless you want to give them your issues
In case you missed it, i do know him (in the real world) and have not said anything that i wouldn't say to his face
I dont know how much you know about Therapy, but a therapist doesnot just sit and agree with the person they are helping, what good would that do?
A good therapist will challenge and help the client to also challenge, to face the things that took them there in the first place.
As for me, I dont just agree with anyone, I read and then make a comment based on what I have read, past readings and what little I know. I have said in the past that things have to be faced. But it is not my place to challenge, I am not his therapist.
I didnt miss what you said, but apparently you missed what he said, the problem is not with another person, though it may have started there, the problem is with himself, within himself.
I am glad you would say it to his face, so would I, to yours.
I know you are trying to help, but honestly attacking is not the way. You can be honest, and say what you think without being brutal.
I can see where you are coming from though with regards to the children, I still believe that writing it down is cathartic. Though maybe K could make the posts friends only or private? That way the children wouldnt see them.
i know quite a bit about therapy, writing can be cathartic.
If you put yourself out in this forum and invite comments they will not always be what you want to hear and if you don't want people to challenge what you say, don't say it.
he could arrange things so that the kids can't read it but that shouldn't need to be pointed out.
if i wanted to be brutal i could but i wasn't
he'll be back
Now there we both agree, when you write in a public forum you invite all manner of comments, but you also invite the chance to debate.
Sometimes people need things pointing out, because they dont always think of it or see it, but, you 'know' K, I only know him from here.
You dont think you were brutal, perhaps to you, you were not, but to me reading it, it seemed that way.
I hope he does come back.
Maybe you would consider it too?
thankyou for what i take to be an invite to the blog community but it's not for me. I don't object to those who do it even tho it may seem like that. like all technology and things that come from it, it has it's place but give me real people every time.
trust me, he'll be back coz he can't resist it
 | faffajane pro http://faffajane.blog.co.uk/ 20/03/07 @ 10:07 |
Hugs x
Get in contact hun soon.
Know you won't but I can keep trying
I've read the comments on your previous post with mounting concern. Unless you suffer from depression, I really don't think you can understand it. What people don't understand when they say "Pull yourself together" is that you ARE pulling yourself together all the time and it is exhausting. When you have a particularly dark day it is because you don't have the strength left for a while.
Personally, I have allowed myself to go easy on certain things. For instance, telephone calls fill me with dread. Once upon a time, I would have forced myself to answer every time, but now I leave it - after all, if you have a scab you don't pick it, do you. And every time I feel depression coming on, I pick up my knitting, do a jigsaw, anything to absorb me and take me away from my thoughts until I feel stronger.
You love music and you write a mean poem - bury yourself in those - and then please post about them because we love to hear. You are very brave, much more brave than ordinary mortals can possibly give you credit it for - and think of all the people who love you - you can't be that bad a person, can you?
 | phinebooty [Member] 20/03/07 @ 16:01 |
i hope you'll get the help you need and find out what the hell is bugging you and deal with it.xxx
 | Bex182 [Member] 20/03/07 @ 17:07 |
Fuck what everyone says Dad do what you gotta do for you and Niki.
Love you loads, we'll get through it
Bex xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
 | lledeb [Member] 24/03/07 @ 16:44 |
sorry to see you go, but if it's what you want. tata.
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